letters to his son, 1748-第11部分
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where they are very necessary； and where you will have good masters and good models for both。 Your exercises of riding； fencing； and dancing； will civilize and fashion your body and your limbs； and give you； if you will but take it； 'l'air d'un honnete homme'。
I will now conclude with suggesting one reflection to you； which is； that you should be sensible of your good fortune； in having one who interests himself enough in you； to inquire into your faults； in order to inform you of them。 Nobody but myself would be so solicitous； either to know or correct them； so that you might consequently be ignorant of them yourself； for our own self…love draws a thick veil between us and our faults。 But when you hear yours from me； you may be sure that you hear them from one who for your sake only desires to correct them； from one whom you cannot suspect of any； partiality but in your favor； and from one who heartily wishes that his care of you； as a father； may； in a little time； render every care unnecessary but that of a friend。 Adieu。
P。 S。 I condole with you for the untimely and violent death of the tuneful Matzel。
LETTER XLIII
LONDON； July 1； O。 S。 1748。
DEAR Boy： I am extremely well pleased with the course of studies which Mr。 Harte informs me you are now in； and with the degree of application which he assures me you have to them。 It is your interest to do so； as the advantage will be all your own。 My affection for you makes me both wish and endeavor that you may turn out well； and； according as you do turn out； I shall either be proud or ashamed of you。 But as to mere interest； in the common acceptation of that word； it would be mine that you should turn out ill； for you may depend upon it； that whatever you have from me shall be most exactly proportioned to your desert。 Deserve a great deal； and you shall have a great deal； deserve a little； and you shall have but a little； and be good for nothing at all； and； I assure you； you shall have nothing at all。
Solid knowledge； as I have often told you； is the first and great foundation of your future fortune and character； for I never mention to you the two much greater points of Religion and Morality； because I cannot possibly suspect you as to either of them。 This solid knowledge you are in a fair way of acquiring； you may； if you please； and I will add； that nobody ever had the means of acquiring it more in their power than you have。 But remember； that manners must adorn knowledge； and smooth its way through the world。 Like a great rough diamond； it may do very well in a closet by way of curiosity； and also for its intrinsic value； but it will never be worn or shine if it is not polished。 It is upon this article； I confess； that I suspect you the most； which makes me recur to it so often； for I fear that you are apt to show too little attention to everybody； and too much contempt to many。 Be convinced； that there are no persons so insignificant and inconsiderable； but may； some time or other； have it in their power to be of use to you； which they certainly will not； if you have once shown them contempt。 Wrongs are often forgiven； but contempt never is。 Our pride remembers it forever。 It implies a discovery of weaknesses； which we are much more careful to conceal than crimes。 Many a man will confess his crimes to a common friend； but I never knew a man who would tell his silly weaknesses to his most intimate oneas many a friend will tell us our faults without reserve； who will not so much as hint at our follies； that discovery is too mortifying to our self…love； either to tell another； or to be told of one's self。 You must； therefore； never expect to hear of your weaknesses； or your follies； from anybody but me； those I will take pains to discover； and whenever I do； shall tell you of them。
Next to manners are exterior graces of person and address； which adorn manners； as manners adorn knowledge。 To say that they please； engage； and charm； as they most indisputably do； is saying that one should do everything possible to acquire them。 The graceful manner of speaking is； particularly； what I shall always holloa in your ears； as Hotspur holloaed MORTIMER to Henry IV。； and； like him too； I have aimed to have a starling taught to say； SPEAK DISTINCTLY AND GRACEFULLY； and send him you； to replace your loss of the unfortunate Matzel； who； by the way； I am told； spoke his language very distinctly and gracefully。
As by this time you must be able to write German tolerably well； I desire that you will not fail to write a German letter； in the German character； once every fortnight； to Mr。 Grevenkop： which will make it more familiar to you； and enable me to judge how you improve in it。
Do not forget to answer me the questions； which I asked you a great while ago； in relation to the constitution of Saxony； and also the meaning of the words 'Landsassii and Amptsassii'。
I hope you do not forget to inquire into the affairs of trade and commerce； nor to get the best accounts you can of the commodities and manufactures； exports and imports of the several countries where you may be； and their gross value。
I would likewise have you attend to the respective coins； gold； silver； copper； etc。； and their value； compared with our coin's； for which purpose I would advise you to put up； in a separate piece of paper； one piece of every kind； wherever you shall be； writing upon it the name and the value。 Such a collection will be curious enough in itself； and that sort of knowledge will be very useful to you in your way of business； where the different value of money often comes in question。
I am doing to Cheltenham to…morrow； less for my health； which is pretty good； than for the dissipation and amusement of the journey。 I shall stay about a fortnight。
L'Abbe Mably's 'Droit de l'Europe'； which Mr。 Harte is so kind as to send me； is worth your reading。 Adieu。
LETTER XLIV。
CHELTENHAM； July 6； O。 S。 1748。
DEAR BOY： Your school…fellow； Lord Pulteney；＇Only child of the Right Hon。 William Pulteney； Earl of Bath。 He died before his father。＇ set out last week for Holland； and will； I believe； be at Leipsig soon after this letter： you will take care to be extremely civil to him； and to do him any service that you can while you stay there； let him know that I wrote to you to do so。 As being older； he should know more than you； in that case； take pains to get up to him； but if he does not； take care not to let him feel his inferiority。 He will find it out of himself without your endeavors； and that cannot be helped： but nothing is more insulting； more mortifying and less forgiven； than avowedly to take pains to make a man feel a mortifying inferiority in knowledge； rank； fortune； etc。 In the two last articles； it is unjust； they not being in his power： and in the first it is both ill…bred and ill…natured。 Good…breeding； and good… nature； do incline us rather to raise and help people up to ourselves； than to mortify and depress them； and； in truth； our own private interest concurs in it； as it is making ourselves so many friends； instead of so many enemies。 The constant practice of what the French call 'les Attentions'； is a most necessary ingredient in the art of pleasing； they flatter the self…love of those to whom they are shown； they engage； they captivate； more than things of much greater importance。 The duties of social life every man is obliged to discharge； but these attentions are voluntary acts； the free…will offerings of good…breeding and good。 nature； they are received； remembered； and returned as such。 Women； particularly； have a right to them； and any omission in that respect is downright ill…breeding。
Do you employ your； whole time in the most useful manner？ I do not mean； do you study all day long？ nor do I require it。 But I mean； do you make the most of the respective allotments of your time？ While you study； is it with attention？ When you divert yourself； is it with spirit？ Your diversions may； if you please； employ some part of your time very usefully。 It depends entirely upon the nature of them。 If they are futile and frivolous it is time worse than lost； for they will give you an habit of futility。 All gaming； field…sports； and such sort of amusements； where neither the understanding nor the senses have the least share； I look upon as frivolous； and as the resources of little minds； who either do not think； or do not love to think。 But the pleasures of a man of parts either flatter the senses or improve the mind； I hope at least； that there is not one minute of the day in which you do nothing at all。 Inaction at your age is unpardonable。
Tell me what Greek and Latin books you can now read with ease。 Can you open Demosthenes at a venture； and understand him？ Can you get through an 〃Oration〃 of Cicero； or a 〃Satire〃 of Horace； without difficulty？ What German books do you read； to make yourself master of that language？ And what French books do you read for your amusement？ Pray give me a particular and true account of all this； for I am not indifferent as to any one thing that relates to you。 As； for example； I hope you take great care to keep your whole person； particularly your mouth； very clean； common d
